The boy in Old Mexico did feel like destiny. It was only eight months ago that we shared an apartment in Obrera, Mexico City: morning coffees on our balcony that was actually just the awning of an Oxxo corner store; asking him to complain when they installed a million watt security light that beamed directly into our bed. Now, I open his post-stamped letter with some photos and a hand-drawn dedication to our very romantic walk on the indigenous pyramids in burglar-bar colonia Iztapalapa. The photos of us from my propped 35mm hung on my wall alongside a 30s socialist map of Mexico City; they framed a large window onto Lead where I watched slow crawling pedestrians or speeding metal. He just called it meth, though he was apt to opt for reality given he was in recovery. He mistook me for devoted—because I told him I was. But, in my calm certainty, I was quaking like a broken engine.
The Ford had a cassette player, its only technology I could embrace. Suddenly, I had spent a significant portion of my student loans on audio tapes. Another fraction went towards a sound system, and then a tape-deck repair shop, bass speakers, treble speakers, more and more junk shop speakers. All to just lay over my jute rug and feel the rumble of 18-wheelers clunk across the road and some Jon Hassell fourth-world route 66 soundscape. Or the Dead Can Dance cassettes I’d found at the music shop down the road; they were covered in stray acrylic paint and I imagined their lives in some tacky artist’s studio: a guy painting sea-scenes with two hump-stroke seagulls. The music shop was right across from the Rapid Transit station, the bones of a decaying whale laying in the middle of the wide road. It was Crystal Clear Central, and here I was walking in direct-sun, fraying dirty blonde hair that sweatily clung to my black back-pack. The shop-keepers informed me via nervous stares and furled brows: you cannot be a flaneur in fentanyl-city.
I gave one of the goth-rock tapes to an androgynous boy I’d long noticed on campus. The first time was in the fine arts library where the research librarian regretfully informed him there were no books on medieval European painting; nerd noted. He was the kind of long-haired lanky guy I would often cloak in unfounded mystery. Square-toothed grin. Now, the black hair in long braids meets a dark crop-top, his large forehead cut by a middle-part. It took a year to work up my courage, but it was a truly cinematic flirt. “Can I show you something?” Interrupting his lunch and dog-eared fantasy paper-back, I led him to the adjacent balcony. “You have you lay on your back, your legs up the wall, and look up at the sky.” Only slightly apprehensive, he does so and joins me in this miraculous vision: the cottonwood seed is hurling through the sky in currents of every winding direction; the blinding orb of sun is just beyond the cliff of adobe wall and lights up the feathery matter like white-hot glitter. The sun is exploding, casting itself across the acrylic blue heavens. We’ll either die or fall in love.
I thought he was maybe Diné, but his name is Vlad. And as we walk along the pollinating cottonwood in their city planner-planted habitat, he talks about a polyamorous partner he met at Rainbow Gathering. He did smell like the Gathering: weed mixed with sweat and a faint shit-streak inside his knee-length gym shorts. We won’t die or fall in love; our conversation runs like disparate currents in the sky, mine a bit closer to Earth.
I gave him a ride in the Ford across town. He comments on the rattling and the steering that jerks on its own. I rub the dashboard and give the plastic cloak a compliment and plead that she carry on. I dropped him off on Silver St. and then the engine clunks its final turn. It lasted about seven months; I hadn’t even given her a name: great white whale? Dead Desert Moby Dick. Nothing as dramatic as a flip, just a slow crawl towards lifelessness–like ‘Burque itself.
“I don’t know why you don’t like it here,” my professor chastised, “it’s like any other American city.” I had missed class because I collapsed on a long walk to campus. I was just past the covered cement bridge where dirty needles littered the cracks with human feces, dried piss, and a cacophony of dissonant classical compositions; who knew such a harpsichord spectrum existed: at one end, a quaint chamber concert, and at the other, a weapon to pierce any desire to live. It takes practice to walk past a limp body and do nothing. But here, practice makes perfect. If it even warranted a headline: Found on road, dead.
“Que chido! Where they filmed Breaking Bad!” even this straight guy from rural Mexico cannot fathom why I don’t like it. “It is really cool,” I shouldn’t be a cunt at the beginning of a silent meditation retreat, but I’m always myself: “You can pay to ride a little meth-lab van, and look at the people along Central Avenue. Pretend they’re extras in this drama.”
My domestic suburban drama was kept up through texts and awkward video calls with a boy I’d fallen in love with in Old Mexico. He dreamed of coming to live with me: “it doesn’t matter where, I just want to be with you.” I imagined this as his first venture into U.S. urbanism: driving to the supermarket, driving to grander more distant suburbs for clothes shopping, driving to a bar, to school, to his tattoo clients. Spontaneity doesn’t renew itself here on a desert highway: it’s long straight paths towards destinations plugged into google maps. On my banana-cream-pie Honda Passport, I groan down Lead Avenue in an 80s leather jacket and gloves. The busted shocks jolt the metal where the cacophonous cement bridge meets the ground pavement. The truck, the air conditioned car, the frenzied motor-bike is the in-between space of thinking about nothing. About doing nothing. About being nothing; about being American: about being the living dead.